<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312;">女儿识字<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312;">由于无人照看的缘故<span lang="EN-US">,</span>在婧婧<span lang="EN-US">3</span>岁的时候我就把她放在我所任教的学校的幼儿园里了<span lang="EN-US">.</span>直到现在<span lang="EN-US">,</span>已经读了三个学期了<span lang="EN-US">.</span>我从不指望她当神童之类的天才之类的人<span lang="EN-US">(</span>当然她也不一定具备<span lang="EN-US">),</span>也不想让她过早地介入无聊的学习生涯<span lang="EN-US">,</span>我要让她有个无忧无虑的童年<span lang="EN-US">.</span>放在学校<span lang="EN-US">,</span>主要目的是为了让她学会过集体生活<span lang="EN-US">.</span>现在的独生子女<span lang="EN-US">,</span>在物质上比我们那辈强多了<span lang="EN-US">,</span>但一个子女的家庭孩子是孤独的<span lang="EN-US">,</span>他们反而少了兄妹多的乐趣<span lang="EN-US">.</span>在群体里生活<span lang="EN-US">,</span>对她的性格发展有帮助<span lang="EN-US">.</span>所以我从不关心她的学习情况<span lang="EN-US">,</span>只要她在学校开心就好<span lang="EN-US">.</span>最近我女儿有好学倾向<span lang="EN-US">,</span>每当我看书时<span lang="EN-US">,</span>她便挤过来说<span lang="EN-US">:</span>妈妈<span lang="EN-US">,</span>你教我认字<span lang="EN-US">.</span>我就拣简单的字教她一二个<span lang="EN-US">.</span>我发现<span lang="EN-US">,</span>在学校混了那么久<span lang="EN-US">,</span>也能认识几个字了<span lang="EN-US">,</span>像一<span lang="EN-US">,</span>二<span lang="EN-US">,</span>人<span lang="EN-US">,</span>花之类的<span lang="EN-US">,</span>其中头字有趣<span lang="EN-US">,</span>她认作”脚”的<span lang="EN-US">,</span>我取笑了她一回<span lang="EN-US">,</span>她便又记住了<span lang="EN-US">.</span>有一天我在看书<span lang="EN-US">,</span>书题上有个”章”字<span lang="EN-US">,</span>她看见了忙说<span lang="EN-US">:</span>妈妈<span lang="EN-US">,</span>这是草字<span lang="EN-US">.</span>还有一次<span lang="EN-US">,</span>我指着对联上的”千”字<span lang="EN-US">,</span>她马上说<span lang="EN-US">:</span>是牛字<span lang="EN-US">. </span>我大笑<span lang="EN-US">,</span>也没纠正<span lang="EN-US">.</span>这就是我可爱的女儿五岁时识字的模样<span lang="EN-US">,</span>常常指鹿为马<span lang="EN-US">!<p></p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312;">有一天我在看书<span lang="EN-US">,</span>她又让我教她认字<span lang="EN-US">,</span>我指着”王”字说<span lang="EN-US">:</span>”这是你们王老师的王<span lang="EN-US">.</span>”她跟着念了两遍<span lang="EN-US">,</span>我又另指一个字<span lang="EN-US">,</span>她脱口而出<span lang="EN-US">:</span>”陈老师的陈<span lang="EN-US">.</span>”因为她数学老师姓陈<span lang="EN-US">.</span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312;"><span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312;"><span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></p><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #990099; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312;"><span lang="EN-US"><p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">裤子破洞及其它</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: blue;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt;"><span style="COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">在我女儿三两岁的时候</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span><span style="COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">对洞情有独钟</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">.</font></span><span style="COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">在她的毛毯上我不小心让蚊香烧了个小洞</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span><span style="COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">她有事没事便用手指去挖</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">.</font></span><span style="COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">遇上别人手臂或者说是脸上有疤痕</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span><span style="COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">她也会用手使劲地挠一下</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">.</font></span><span style="COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">她伯母脸上有颗痣</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span><span style="COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">每次抱她</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span><span style="COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">她都去挖一挖的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">.</font></span><span style="COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">有一次她很认真地对我说</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">:</font></span><span style="COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">妈妈</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span><span style="COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">爸爸的裤子上破了一个洞</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">.</font></span><span style="COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">我很奇怪</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span><span style="COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">这怎么可能呢</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">?</font></span><span style="COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">经她指点我才发现</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span><span style="COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">原来那个</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">”</font></span><span style="COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">洞</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">”</font></span><span style="COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">是做拉链用的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">!</font></span><span style="COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">真让我们哭笑不得</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">.</font></span><span style="COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">还有一天女儿在卫生间挺着腹部作拉尿状</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span><span style="COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">我忙提醒她要蹲下</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span><span style="COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">她振振有词</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">:</font></span><span style="COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">爸爸拉尿都站着拉的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">.</font></span><span style="COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">我愕然</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span><span style="COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">只好告诉她</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span><span style="COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">男女有别</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">!</font></span><span style="COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">小孩子用他们天真而单纯的目光好奇地打探着这个陌生的世界</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span><span style="COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">我们作为长辈应给予正确的引导和帮助</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span><span style="COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">自己的行为应处处为儿女的榜样</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">.</font></span><span style="COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">父母是孩子最好的老师</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span><span style="COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">这句话如当头一棒</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span><span style="COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">从此我应谨言慎行</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span><span style="COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">时刻检点自己的一举一动</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span><span style="COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">哪怕是随地吐一口口水</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">.<p></p></font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: blue;"><p><font face="Times New Roman">
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