[分享]成长,才是真爱自己

荷塘月色

<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><font size="4"><font face="Times New Roman"><font color="#996685"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">很喜欢二三月</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">那种万物复苏</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">生命开始悄悄孕育生长的感觉真的能给人带来希望和喜悦</span><span lang="EN-US">----3</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">月是一个成长的季节</span><span lang="EN-US">.</span></font></font></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><font size="4"><font face="Times New Roman"><font color="#996685"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">万物是这样</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">我们自己又何尝不是呢</span><span lang="EN-US">?</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">经过了新年</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">春节</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">情人节几个大假之后</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">我们也开始调整好情绪</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">整装待发</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">迎接真正意义上新的一年的开始</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">在新的一年</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">希望自己有新的成长</span><span lang="EN-US">.</span></font></font></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><font size="4"><font face="Times New Roman"><font color="#996685"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">有一位教育心理学家曾经说过</span><span lang="EN-US">:”</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">我们一生所经历的成千上万风险当中</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">最大的风险莫过于成长一次充满惊险的跳跃</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">多少人一辈子都不曾跳跃这一步</span><span lang="EN-US">.”</span></font></font></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><font size="4"><font face="Times New Roman"><font color="#996685"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">成长</span><span lang="EN-US">?</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">我们每天不是都在成长吗</span><span lang="EN-US">?</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">这难道不是一个自然而然的过程吗</span><span lang="EN-US">?</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">就像花开花落</span><span lang="EN-US">…</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">不错</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">我们每天都在长大</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">在一天天变老</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">可是我们应该时常问自己</span><span lang="EN-US">:</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">我们的心智真的在成长吗</span><span lang="EN-US">?</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">我们内心的力量是否在一天天变得强大</span><span lang="EN-US">?</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">我们是否对自己充满自信同时又敢于自省</span><span lang="EN-US">?</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">我们是否对自己的选择敢于承担</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">敢于付出</span><span lang="EN-US">?</span></font></font></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><font size="4"><font face="Times New Roman"><font color="#996685"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">很多人是害怕成长的</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">尤其是女性</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">我们不愿意对自己的生活做出选择</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">常常把自己置于一个被动的地位</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">而面对被动选择带来的后果</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">我们又常把它归咎于别人</span><span lang="EN-US">….</span></font></font></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><font size="4"><font face="Times New Roman"><font color="#996685"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">比如我们女性最爱说的一些话当我们对自己选择的爱情不满的时候</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">我们最爱对男人说</span><span lang="EN-US">:</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">我为你牺牲了这么多</span><span lang="EN-US">…</span></font></font></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><font size="4"><font face="Times New Roman"><font color="#996685"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">当我们面对爱情的背叛时</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">我们认为自己是受害者</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">自怨自艾</span><span lang="EN-US">:</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">我为你付出了那么多</span><span lang="EN-US">…</span></font></font></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><font size="4"><font face="Times New Roman"><font color="#996685"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">当我们无法在工作和生活中取得平衡的时候</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">我们抱怨</span><span lang="EN-US">:</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">工作让我们丧失了享受生活的乐趣</span><span lang="EN-US">…</span></font></font></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><font size="4"><font face="Times New Roman"><font color="#996685"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">当我们无法抵御名牌诱惑的时候</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">我们拿起时装杂志</span><span lang="EN-US">:</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">是你们让我们的生活变得虚荣浮躁</span><span lang="EN-US">…</span></font></font></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><font size="4"><font face="Times New Roman"><font color="#996685"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">拜托</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">如果你的内心永远有这样的托词</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">你就永远不可能真正的成长</span><span lang="EN-US">.</span></font></font></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><font size="4"><font face="Times New Roman"><font color="#996685"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">你爱自己吗</span><span lang="EN-US">?</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">真爱自己就需要抛弃</span><span lang="EN-US">”</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">受害者情结</span><span lang="EN-US">”,</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">拿出勇气去面对</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">敢于改变自己</span><span lang="EN-US">.</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">最大的风险莫过于成长</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">最大的幸福也莫过于成长</span><span lang="EN-US">.</span></font></font></font></p>

张弓亮剑

在风险和幸福中成长！有个性。

慧眸一笑^_^

<p><font size="4">感谢雨台，好文一起分享~</font></p><p>&nbsp;</p>[em23][em23][em23][em23][em23][em23]

十九楼

<p></p><p><font color="#ff00ff" size="4">妹妹~</font></p><p><font color="#ff00ff" size="4">楼上的那个家伙抢偶沙发，5555555</font></p>

十九楼

<p><font color="#ff00ff" size="4"></font></p><p><font color="#ff00ff" size="4">一路成长,一路感恩...</font></p><p><font color="#ff00ff" size="4">我不想长大，但是我可以继续保持一颗未泯的童心</font></p><p><font color="#ff00ff" size="4">所以我依然快乐~</font></p>

张弓亮剑

<div class="msgheader">QUOTE:</div><div class="msgborder"><b>以下是引用<i>十九楼</i>在2007-11-27 10:58:38的发言：</b><br/><p></p><p><font color="#ff00ff" size="4">妹妹~</font></p><p><font color="#ff00ff" size="4">楼上的那个家伙抢偶沙发，5555555</font></p></div><p>十九楼妹妹，别5555555了，这是双人沙发，要是不嫌弃，一起坐？</p>

荷塘月色

有福同享,有沙发一起坐哈,趁着现在天气冷,大可以挤挤暖的[em01][em01]

过客匆匆

我们一起分享好的文章，深的哲理！

十九楼

<div class="msgheader">QUOTE:</div><div class="msgborder"><b>以下是引用<i>张弓亮剑</i>在2007-11-27 11:06:14的发言：</b><br/><p>十九楼妹妹，别5555555了，这是双人沙发，要是不嫌弃，一起坐？</p></div><p></p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><font color="#ff00ff" size="4">好啊，我躺沙发，你坐地上，端茶倒水,</font>[em07]</p>

霏雲霏雾

<p>本来我可以第一个回的，结果BOSS叫偶有事，就关掉网页啦~~~~</p><p>雨台的文章让我们可以学习到很多。</p>[em17][em17]