[原创]新三大纪律，八项注意

玉儿

<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 88pt; mso-char-indent-count: 5.5;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';"></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; mso-char-indent-count: 1.5;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">女儿两三岁的时候很不听话，叫她做什么事她总是没长耳朵听。如喊她吃饭，没有十遍不行，吃饭的时候也不专心，吃吃玩玩，玩玩吃吃。那时我和老公工作都很忙，哪有时间让她磨蹭呢。于是我决定改变她不听话、做事拖拉的习惯，从而让她养成好习惯。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">怎么改，怎么养呢？一次偶尔一个电视节目里唱《三大纪律，八项注意》的歌让我灵机一动：女儿不是爱唱歌吗？我也给她来个《三大纪律，八项注意》。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">
                                <p></p></font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">于是我冥思苦想了一个晚上，写出一首《新三大纪律，八项注意》歌。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">咱们家人个个要牢记</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
                        <br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">三大纪律八项注意</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
                        <br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">第一一切行动听指挥</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
                        <br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">命令发出马上要到位</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
                        <br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">第二不动他人一针线</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
                        <br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">他人对我爱护又喜欢</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
                        <br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">第三自己的事自己做</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
                        <br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">努力减轻他人的负担</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
                        <br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">三大纪律我们要做到</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
                        <br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">八项注意切莫忘记了</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
                        <br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">第一说话态度要和好</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
                        <br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">尊重他人不要耍骄傲</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
                        <br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">第二咱家人人都平等</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;"><br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">公平对待不许逞霸道</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
                        <br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">第三借人东西用过了</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
                        <br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">当面归还切莫遗失掉</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
                        <br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">第四若把东西损坏了</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
                        <br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">照“价”赔偿不差半分毫</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
                        <br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">第五不许打人和骂人</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
                        <br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">坏的作风坚决克服掉</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
                        <br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">第六用过的东西不乱放</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">时时刻刻都要注意到</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;"><br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">第七不许偷懒耍花招</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
                        <br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">该做的事情坚决要做好</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
                        <br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">第八不许浪费乱花钱</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
                        <br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">不许乱扔卫生做好</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">遵守纪律人人要自觉</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
                        <span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">互相监督切莫违反了</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
                        <br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">八大纪律条条要记清</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
                        <span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">互敬互爱咱们是一家人</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">全心全意爱这个家庭！</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;"><br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">编好了歌词之后，我让全家人都学会唱，然后都按这些条令办事，谁也不许违反，谁违反谁受罚，普通者罚做家务，轻者罚站半个小时，重者罚一周不许做自己最喜欢做的事，比如老公不许看体育节目，我不许看书，女儿不许看动画片或吃零食。同时还在这些规定后面再加一些细则，如家务分工细则，处罚细则，奖励细则等等全都注明清楚。最后把这些行成文字，用一张纸工工整整抄写好，贴在墙上。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; mso-char-indent-count: 1.5;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">为了让女儿相信这一切是真正要落实到位的，我首先拿老公开刀。一次吃完饭后该老公洗碗，可他因为看足球节目没很好完成任务。我马上罚他站半个小时。为了给女儿做好榜样，他不得不立在墙角老老实实地地站了半个小时，还把那首</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">《新三大纪律，八项注意》歌唱了十遍。</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">接着就是我因乱扔了一次垃圾，老公马上罚我打扫家里卫生一周。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; mso-char-indent-count: 1.5;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">在女儿还没养成习惯前，对她稍微松些，但一定要罚。开始她屡屡受罚，为了不让她觉得委屈或有心里压力，罚的名目尽量有趣些。比如罚做家务时，我和老公可在旁协助与之比赛，罚站时我在一旁给她讲故事，我通常讲与之做错事有关的教育故事，这样让她明白为什么受罚，以后应该怎么做。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">有罚也有奖，一周之内如果谁一次都不违反规定，谁就可以有一次享受特殊权利的机会。这个特殊权利视各人需要而定。一月之内谁做是最好，谁就做一天主人，这一天里由他发号施令，其他人都得听他指挥。一年之内表现最好的，年终时发特别奖：奖金</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">200</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">元。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">《新三大纪律，八项注意》一开始实施特难，特别是女儿，不停违反规定，有时还强词夺理。记得第一次违反规定是她玩了玩具之后没有自己收拾好，放在规定的地方。我要求她收拾好时，她振振有词地说：“小强玩的玩具总是他妈妈收的。”我马上告诉她小强做得也不对，做得不对就不能学，否则学多了就会变成一个永远没人爱的坏孩子。接着我创编了一个叫《回不了家的小猫咪咪》的故事，讲的是一只不听话的小猫总喜欢和别人学坏习惯，结果所有的朋友们都不喜欢他，一次他在山上迷路了，可是谁也不肯帮助他，结果他呆在山上两天两夜怎么也回不了家，最后还是妈妈找到了他才回家的。讲完故事后再让她罚站，她倒乖乖听话按要求做了，此后再也没有了出现做什么总拿别人比而不做的情况了。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; mso-char-indent-count: 1.5;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">最难的是让她做家务事，如让她自己洗袜子、收拾小桌子、替爸妈拿东西，开始很多时候她不能按时按质量完成，这时我们就得花很大的耐心引导和激发她去做，否则就会前功尽弃。慢慢她就能认认真真完成我们布置的任务，再后来不用我们布置也能自觉完成，不偷懒，不耍花招。一些坏的习惯慢慢少了，好的习惯渐渐养成了。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">作为父母的我们为了给她做好榜样，也不得不更规范自己的行为习惯，做一个守规定的好爸爸妈妈。这样一来，一家人争吵少了，快乐多了，也和睦多了</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt;"><p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;"><p>&nbsp;</p></span></p>

江涛

<div class="msgheader">QUOTE:</div><div class="msgborder"><b>以下是引用<i>村长小麦</i>在2007-7-26 10:20:34的发言：</b><br/><p>言传不如身教,楼主苦心教导,相信楼主聪明美丽的女儿一定有所作为!</p><p>楼主的教育方法,应该全国推广!</p></div><p></p>村长说得很对，如果全国不能推广的话，就在我们全村推广吧！哈！

江涛

谢谢玉儿为我们带来精彩的文章！

飞龙在天

呵呵!可怜天下父母心![em05]

村长小麦

<p>言传不如身教,楼主苦心教导,相信楼主聪明美丽的女儿一定有所作为!</p><p>楼主的教育方法,应该全国推广!</p>

江涛

这个方法我完全可以套用，哈！

长风

<p><font face="楷体_GB2312" size="5">好！</font></p><p><font face="楷体_GB2312" size="5">建设和谐社会从建立和谐家庭开始。</font></p><p><font face="楷体_GB2312" size="5">&nbsp;</font></p><font face="楷体_GB2312" size="5">[em07]</font>

妩媚妖儿

<p>呵，有创意，偶喜欢</p><p>和谐来自于创新，看来是有道理滴</p>

江涛

实用呀！诸位可得学着点哟！

妩媚妖儿

呵，如若开个”<strong>新三大纪律，八项注意“学习班就好了//</strong>